"Do not stand at my grave and weep
    I am not there I do not sleep
    I am a thousand winds that blow.
    I am the diamond glints on snow.
    I am the sun on ripening grain.
    I am the gentle autumn rain.
    When you awaken in the morning's
    hushed light,
    I am the up-fling of birds in flight.
    I am the soft star that shines at night.
    Do not stand at my grave and cry
    I am not there.
    I did not die."
                                                Author: unknown
Diann Kinkelaar
Evidently the Good Lord needed A
Blessed Angel... Vicki. She returned
to Him this morning in her husbands
arms, surrounded by the love of her
Patricia Synak-Cisco
I was blessed and honored to have you as a
friend. You will be greatly missed. Matt,
Anthony and Alex, you are in my prayers. I
know that Vicki is watching over all of you
and all that she loved. I will miss you, you
were a wonderful friend and person.
Charissa Keown-Owens
You will forever be in my prayers Vicki, as will your beautiful family. You have been such
an inspiration to everyone who was blessed to know you. Rest in peace and watch over your
boys from above.
Cory Strode Wellman
Missing the friend I was lucky enough to reconnect with after many years. Thank you for
your friendship and your love for life. We are truly blessed to have had you in our lives. To
Matt, Anthony and Alex, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Angie Landes Williams
You were loved by all of your
Gamma Kappa Chi-O sisters and
you will be missed. My deepest
sympathy goes out to your beautiful
family. May you rest in peace!
Lydia McDermott Bruno
You will be forever missed. You will
always have a special place in my
heart, my Chi Omega sister. You
touched my life and so many others.
My thoughts and prayers are with
your beautiful family.
Mary Paul
My heart goes out to your adorable
little boys and husband. May they be
comforted in knowing that they now
have a beautiful angel watching over
them. Rest peacefully, my sister.
Judith Riggs Jelinek
God willing we will meet again. Tell Grandma, Grandpa, Uncle Bill and Terri we love and
miss them too.
Stephanie Koogler
Rest in peace, Vicki. And God bless your
beautiful family with peace and comfort at
this time.
Danielle Hoppe
Bedard You will be terribly missed Vicki:( You were a great friend! I have so many great
memories of us at Galaxy!!=2 0You will be in my prayers! Love you!
Debbie Linder Spitz
My heart is broken! Vicki, you made my first experience in college a wonderful one! You
were the best roommate I could have ever asked for...probably the best one I've EVER had.
It may have been years since we have seen each other, but yo u will forever hold a special
place in my heart. You will be missed more than words can express. May your memory live
on in your darling boys.
Amy Richards
I will remember you as my Chi-O sister
forever. You were such a wonderful friend
and I know that you will be missed terribly
by every life you have ever touched. God
bless you and keep you. My sympathy
goes out to your beautiful family.
Ron Sandy
It has been a year since you've left us and I
thought it would get easier. It hasn't... Not an
hour goes buy when I don't feel that void and
incredible sense of loss. I love you and can't
wait to someday see you in heaven. The only
thing greater than my heart-ache is my pride
in how you lived your life and how you
fought until the very end.
Always with us
Ted Yaeger
Vicki will be remembered for assisting Nancey and I develop a sophisticated treatment for breast
cancer. She patiently worked with us to understand a specific planning nuance that is now helping
women complete their radiation with few, if any symptoms. Her dedication to cancer patients set the
example of Christian love. May God bless the family.
Kathy Spezialetti Dulany
Dear Vicki, Through the years we have always reconnected somehow and I will miss you
very much. May God grant you peace now and bless your family. With my love and prayers
Marlene Hannon Saltillo
I was introduced to Vicky through a working relationship with ROR. She was so friendly and
helpful. Although, we never met face to face, it was obvious through our many conversations how
much she loved life and loved her family. I pray you will all be blessed with grace and strength
through this most difficult time. I will keep you in my prayers. May God Bless You
Julie Forney
Vicki was the absolute best. She will be missed. Vicki was our dosimetrist for a short period and even
in that time she had a huge impact. She was always up beat it was never an inconvenience to fix
something. She took pride in the work she did and gave a positive outlook on everything. We would
laugh when she was trying to talk with her son playing in the background or when she was trying to
complete a plan with morning sickness. Even though I did not know her for very long I felt she was a
friend. My prayers are with you during this difficult time. My God give you the strength to continue.
Remember all of the good times and keep them close to your heart.
Joyce and Alan Sandy
Not a day will go by that we don't think of
the total joy it was having a beautiful daughter
like Vicki. She was my princess and my
birthday gift from God. Her smile brightened
any room and her long fight with Leukemia
will inspire many for a long time. She has left
a lasting impression on us and the rest of her
family. We will miss her until we are reunited again.
Stacy Sandy-Smith
Even though you are gone you still live on in our hearts and memories everyday. You have
touched so many people in such a short amount of time that your journey was accomplished
so early. You are the best sister anyone could ever dream of. You have been my hero for so
long, and I am so proud of you and the fight that you fought. Your at home now and I
know that you are in the arms of Our Lord.  Our hearts will always be together. Love you
and miss you so much it hurts. Until the day we are together again, see you soon sis
Love you always
Your little Sis, Stacy
P.S. Thank you for the L.V. pink purse
Kelly Jones
Wow, where to begin to honor someone that is such an amazing person. Vicki has touched
many people's life and she will continue to due so as time goes on. Stacy is my best friend
since 6th grade, so I have been a part of the Sandy family for a long time. Vicki was always
there for her family. I have memories of Stacy always going to Vicki's room stealing her
I.O.U. Sweat shirts to wear to school, and going roller skating on the weekends. I also was
especially honored when Vicki ask my daughter (Samantha) and I to be in her wedding. I
know it was one of Vicki's greatest day for her.
Vicki has accomplished so much in her life and is a hero to all of us.
She will not be forgotten in my eyes. Vicki and her family will be always be in my prayers.
Love Kelly